The unlit candle symbolizes unrealized potential and unachieved goals. Blowing out candles represents wishing for a new beginning and accepting change, while lighting them represents having the guts to follow our dreams and venture into the unknown. The meaning behind the unlit candle and untouched cake serves as a reminder that we are denying ourselves the opportunity to experience the richness and fulfillment that await us when we choose not to take the risk of trying.